Release The Parking Brake
January 26 2026 β Nick Massie
Hi Friend,
Once you get started, you learn something important pretty quickly:
The fastest way to go farther isnβt pushing harder,Β itβs removing friction.
Hereβs a picture most of us can relate to.
You get in your car. You start driving. Something feels off.
The engineβs working. Youβre pressing the gas. But the car just isnβt moving the way it should.
Then it hits you.
The parking brake is on.
In that moment, you donβt press the accelerator harder. You donβt tell yourself to try more. You release the brake.
Thatβs friction.
And most of us are living our lives with the parking brake still engaged.
We already know what we want to do.
- Eat better.
- Move more.
- Be more present.
- Get a little further ahead.
But instead of removing whatβs slowing us down, we keep asking ourselves for more effort.
The Apostle Paul put words to this struggle (Romans 7:19):
βThe things I want to do, I do not do.
And the things I do not want to do, I do.β
Thatβs not a motivation problem. Thatβs friction.
I see this all the time with nutrition.
Someone says,Β βThis isnβt working. I need more recipes.β
Almost always, the opposite is true.
They donβt need more ideas. They need fewer decisions.
Complex plans create friction.Β Simple, repeatable plans remove it.
- The same breakfast.
- The same lunch.
- A dinner you donβt have to think about.
Sometimes boring works.
So instead of asking,Β βHow can I try harder?βΒ
Ask,Β βWhatβs slowing me down?β
One of the hardest things to do in life is simplify. Complexity is overrated.
- Maybe it's too many clothes in your closet.
- Maybe it's that can of creamed corn in your pantry from last decade.
- Perhaps it's a recipe with 20 ingredients.
Find the friction.Β Name it.Β Then release the brake.
This is all a fancy way of saying,Β "Keep It Paleo!"
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Your Pal,
Paleo Nick